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Sunday Gratitude – 5.IV.2026

To those celebrating today – Christ is Risen! – Happy Easter!
And then there are the “weird” ones here who are still waiting another week, among which I count myself. There have been a lot of services already – yesterday, I think I was in church for nearly four hours. I’ve really struggled this Lent; from the beginning, I felt less ready for it than most years and this year… wow. For the greater part of Lent, I believed that the Orthodox were also going to be celebrating Pascha today, and it was only looking at the calendar more carefully a couple of weeks ago when I realized that no, there’s a one-week difference. I don’t know. I wasn’t expecting to spend so much time in church this weekend, but I was at vigil last night, and I certainly had the feeling of moving from the darkness into the light, and by the time the service was over, there was an air of hopefulness and joy there. For that I am grateful. (My brain did fight against this on the way home, though. *sigh*)
I am grateful for the more spring-like weather, and the opportunity to be outside. I’m also grateful for my neighbor who invites me to come walking with her.
I am grateful for friends who take the time to talk even in the rain.
I am grateful for making it home in a storm the other day; I wasn’t expecting it, then all of a sudden, I was driving down this country highway with lightning flashes all around. I don’t think that they were very close, as there was only a tiny bit of thunder, but what a show! The next day, driving down those same roads, I could actually see how high the water is, and I’m grateful that there were no issues with low-lying stretches of road or the bridges.

Time to take the Christmas wreath down! I am thankful to have had a little bit of time to be outside with my kids, and I’m thankful that they have places around that they can enjoy riding their bikes through, and that they’ve been fine with this “exploring”.
I am thankful for the joy of singing.
I am thankful for the things that are showing signs of life (and even blooming) even after a very cold winter and long periods of neglect.
I am grateful for the opportunity to have been in contact with a number of people on this day, in the joy of Easter.
I am grateful for yet another sign that I’m not alone through the hard stuff.
Thank you so much for being here! Christ is Risen!

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Sunday Gratitude – 29.III.2026

I really hate it when it seems like I blink and yet another week has passed. Somehow so much of this time ends up feeling like a blur, and it seems like all that is left is a growing list of things that should have been done long ago, but haven’t been done yet.
In the meantime, though, I’ve been trying not to lose a sense of gratitude, and to also try to make the most of the days at hand. We’ve had a couple of days that have hit 70F, which has been amazing, and especially as the days are getting longer, it would be terrible if we didn’t do something to take advantage of the warmer weather. My younger son had a day off of school a couple of weeks back, and the two of us went out on our bikes and rode ten miles together, and it was amazing. He also started taking pictures with my camera that afternoon, so I’ll be sharing a few of those in this post.

A couple of weeks after the real birthday, my youngest, in kindergarten, had her first real birthday party. It was a bowling alley affair, and, per the terms of the contract, was less than two hours long, but for a group of 5 and 6 year olds, it was fine. I was completely stressed out over this for at least a week for a number of reasons, but it turned out really, really good. Even the weather held out, kind of… It started raining about the time that the party started, and it was still raining as people left. Had we started a couple of hours later, everybody would have been going home in sleet, because we had a blizzard come through the next day. The kids were thrilled to get the day off of school, and despite the crazy wind, we never lost power. The next day, our dear neighbor made a path for our car using a snowblower.
I’m grateful that even though I managed to break a spoke on the one bike (a different one than before), this happened in a place where I could ride to a place where I could leave the bike for a couple of days, and which was very close to the bike shop. On the night that this happened, I was also able to get a ride back home with one of the ladies from church. I’d never talked to her before, and she’s incredibly sweet, and lives just a couple of streets over from where I live.
I’m grateful for the amazing time I had at St. Haralambos in Niles a couple of weeks back. Not only were some very dear “real life” friends there, I finally got to meet Fr. Andrew Damick in person. We have been online acquaintances (friends) for over 20 years, and it seemed like high time to meet him in person. He actually recognized me by sight as well, which is crazy because it’s been a looong time since I posted any photos of myself that he might come across. 🙂 That was a lot of fun, though.

Breezy days and kites! I am grateful, as well, for the opportunity to visit an old friend and just enjoy sitting on the front step, having a conversation in the sunshine.
In many ways, I feel pulled very, very, very thin. There have been a lot of good things, to be sure, but there have been a number of very, very frustrating things as well. I don’t know; at this point, I’m not sure that I’ll ever have things “figured out”, but there’s a path to go forward on, and that’s the way through this all. Forgive me again for the blog silence – I truly am grateful for you.

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Sunday Gratitude – 22.VI.2025

It’s nearly 11pm, and it’s still over 80℉ outside, which is really, really unusual. We went from barely spring to full-out summer in the blink of an eye. My home cooling system has been on its “last legs” for the last couple of years, but it actually performs decently when it’s over 85℉ or so (isn’t being rained on, and preferably is run in the daytime) and I am extraordinarily grateful that it’s getting us through this heat.
I am also very grateful that the microwave is still functional after having been overheated after somebody tried cooking rice in it.
I am grateful to have had a couple of days so far with minimal driving, and I am thankful that grocery pickup is so widely available.

I don’t want to be doing too much stuff over the summer, but it seems like if there’s nothing going on, it breeds discontent, so I’m grateful that we’ve got some options that will not cost very much.
I’m thankful we made it through church today, no air-conditioning and everything. It was less the lack of air conditioning than other things that were very frustrating, but the heat did not help.
I’m grateful for a little one who still wants to snuggle, and friends who will listen to my frustrations.

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Sunday Gratitude – 15.VI.2025

Happy Fathers Day! To all the fathers, grandfathers, spiritual fathers, and all those who have stepped in as fathers as the need has arisen – you all are amazing! The relationship I had with my dad from the time I was 13 was both non-existent and awful, and I am so much in debt to good men who were examples of who good men are and who helped keep me from getting too far off the rails. None of them were perfect people, but my gratitude for them is eternal!

Although school has been over for my younger kids since May, my oldest had school until this past Thursday. I can’t tell you how thankful I am for the school year to be over. I put 15,000 miles on my car this school year, and I am so incredibly tired of all the driving. I am thankful that there were no major incidents, and I am thankful that it all kind of worked out. This coming week is soccer camp, but I am looking forward to days where the car can just sit for awhile and I don’t have to go anywhere.
The weather this year has been incredibly cool; we’ve only had one day above 80℉, and many, many where it’s struggled to get up to 60℉. I always remember being lilacs being an April or early May flower in Chicago as a kid; now I’m enough north of there that the timetable is a little behind that, but this year, we’re just kind of wrapping up the lilacs now. It’s crazy! I’ve done a little bit of work in the yard, but it hasn’t been as pressing being as all the plants are behind. I know I’ve mentioned my neighbor and the grass before, but I tried to give him a gift card for his trouble, and not only would he not take it, but he told me not to worry about mowing for right now, that he’d take care of it. Wow.
One of the good things about the cool weather is that it makes biking more fun. 🙂 I’ve taken the bike out three times in the last couple of weeks, and it’s been amazing. I am out of shape and out of practice, but I used to go around on the bike all the time, and there’s muscle memory there, and it’s still glorious to ride. This past Thursday, I went 11 miles or so and it didn’t kill me. (Apart from being sore, it all went remarkably well.) I also met a friend along the way, and we ended up chatting for a good long while, which was also a lot of fun. I’m still fighting the bike more than I should, but with some more work, that will probably subside. I’d love to bike to church at some point this summer, but it’s 14-16 miles each way, which certainly isn’t impossible, but there’s the coming back that’s an issue. I haven’t done rides like that – there and back – since before I had kids… I was doing rides in the 14-16 mile range a couple of years ago, but I didn’t even take my bike out at all last year. I’m just grateful for the opportunity to be able to do these things when I can.
I also am grateful that I found the one little thing that was missing from the trail-a-long bike on ebay for a really reasonable price! Hopefully this will be an encouragement to go out on the bike with the kids!

I was in the car yesterday, and I ended up thinking about what the “plan” might be in the next few months and getting overwhelmed by the thought. I looked up, and there was a little thing right in front of me that the saint to whom I feel closest (yes, St. Alexander) was reminding me that he’s looking out for me and that I shouldn’t get caught up in worrying about what things are going to look like in the fall. Maybe it sounds silly, or it sounds like superstition, but it’s happened so many times in very specific moments, that I don’t think it is, and I am ever grateful for his prayers.
I’ve been grateful for a couple of days here just to wind down and be quiet, listen to some Beach Boys music as well as other things.
Thank you all for being here.

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Sunday Gratitude – 1.VI.2025

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It’s only been the last couple of days or so that I’ve felt like I could even breathe; with the end of the school year for my younger kids being just before Memorial Day, and with one of them graduating from eighth grade, it’s been more than even the normal crazy.
I am grateful, though, to be able to slow down a little bit, and to finally not have to be driving as much. There may even be days at the end of the month where I won’t have to drive anywhere all day. The thought! 🙂 (For reference, as of September 10, I had just over 88K miles on my vehicle and today, I’m over 102K.) I really, really hate the driving; it takes up so much time and it’s terribly mundane. I’m thankful to have the Beatles to listen to (particularly Chris Carter in the morning), and I’m absolutely thankful I haven’t been in a wreck – I’ve passed many of them now, especially on the one road.
I am thankful to have had great weather to go out with the bike today. I’m incredibly out of practice, but I went about eight miles. It feels so weird to be fighting the bike, and the more I am in practice, the less I do that. However, even in the last couple of miles, I seemed to be getting into a little bit better of a routine. It felt good, though.

I’m thankful to have had a couple of long conversations with friends. With one, schedules didn’t mesh and whatnot, and so it had been months, and as a result, the conversation lasted over two hours. I still love my Shokz OpenRun headset (forgive me for the affiliate link); I use them a lot not just for listening to podcasts when I’m washing dishes or walking, but I can wear them and talk to people on the phone and fold clothes at the same time.) I’ve had them just under six months now, and they’re still going strong, and I use them a *LOT*.
I’m thankful that the “fun day” this past Tuesday worked out reasonably well.
I’m thankful, also, that, despite some unpleasantness, there wasn’t too much drama with the 8th grade graduation either.
Months ago, someone recommended to me the book The Tender Bar, and I bought it. It’s been on the top of a pile of a dozen books next to one of the recliners I often sit in. I finally picked it up, and it’s a captivating story, and without even trying, I’m about 270 pages – so maybe about 2/3 – of the way through. I think I’ll even finish it! *L* Finishing books has been so hard to do, but just doing some “fun” reading seems to help my soul and I’m grateful for it.
There’s a lot more things I could probably write if I thought about it hard, not in the least includes Memorial Day, but I’ll leave things here for now, except to say that as always, I’m grateful for your time, your thoughts, and your prayers.

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Sunday Gratitude x2 – 11.V.2025/18.V.2025

We’re winding down to the last days of school, and with it, just a ton of things that have to get done. I got sunburned last week, and it was the worst sunburn that I’ve had since I was 12 years old. I hope I never again get sunburned as bad as I did that time – I was so sick that I was throwing up – but this time I was in pain for about 24 hours, and it now seems as though I’ve almost had an allergic reaction to the sunburn, because I have something that looks an awful lot like this – https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/sun-allergy/symptoms-causes/syc-20378077 – in areas of my skin just past the sunburned skin. It’s not necessarily painful, but it’s annoying. Yet, there’s something to be said about being grateful for weather nice enough to be able to enjoy outside.
Speaking of weather, we had a couple of days of storms. I actually didn’t think we’d fared that badly, it seemed very ominous, including a yellowish sky, but we didn’t get any hail or tornadoes, and even the thunder and lightning was minimal. There was some rain, but the bulk of it was over in about 30 minutes. It was only the next day when I heard a lady who lives nearby say her power was out for seven hours that I understood that this was worse than what I thought. Driving around the neighborhood, there actually were a lot of broken and uprooted trees, and we had a second round of this on Friday night, causing more power outages, even on my street, but right here, the power stayed on the whole time and all the trees are good, so I’m thankful for that.
(It’s almost 10pm as I write this, and it’s 42℉ here. Yes, it got up to 80℉ one day last week, and was in the 70s a couple more days, but it’s been a really slow spring! I am thankful that it’s not blazing hot, but this is a little ridiculous!)
I met up with a friend last week whom I hadn’t seen since last summer. We didn’t go more than three miles from my house, but we had a blast. I even found a couple of torenia at the local nursery, and it’s one of the plants that if I see it, I will buy it if it’s not ridiculously expensive. Once, I even managed to get a bunch of seeds from my plants and got a batch the next year, but it’s been awhile since I’ve had them. I’m so behind on the yard that it isn’t even funny, but even having a few things to plant seems to be a beautiful thing. I’m grateful for the visit and the fun and the flowers of the whole day.

I’m grateful, too, for being able to get some sleep this weekend. Even apart from the sunburn (which doesn’t help), I’ve really been tired and dragging. I had plans to get a whole lot done this weekend, and it’s frustrating that I didn’t, but I’ve gotten a lot of sleep, and sometimes catching up on that is at least as important, I’d wager.
I’m very grateful that the school year for two of my kids is nearly over. So much of my time just gets eaten up in the car. I’m thankful I’ve got the radio and the Beatles to listen to, but not having to drive for hours every day in the summer will feel like such a relief!
In any case, I pretty much finished last week’s “Sunday Gratitude”, albeit late on Tuesday night, having worked on it both Sunday and Tuesday, and then I fell asleep on the keyboard again, and got frustrated enough that I never posted… The following is the post for last week:
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I am trying to rebuild the habit of writing, especially the gratitude posts, because if I don’t do these, I feel something in my soul become brittle. I’ve been struggling with prayer and such for awhile now, and I think I’m slowly coming out of it. I think simply being tired is a large factor; even with longer days and bright mornings, it’s so hard to get out of bed.
I was planning on mowing the grass last weekend (on the 2nd or the 3rd) and while cleaning in my bedroom, I stepped over a basket and then slipped putting my foot down on the other side. I wasn’t seriously hurt, but I did pull a muscle at the top of my leg that made both my knee and ankle swell up. It was kind of sore, but I was going to mow the grass anyway until I stood doing dishes the next day and realized that if it hurt that much just to stand for half and hour or so, mowing the grass probably wasn’t a great idea. “That’s okay, I thought, I’ll just mow on Tuesday afternoon.” Well, older son had a sports practice not at his school, and so I got to be the one to pick him up there, so there went the afternoon. On Wednesday or Thursday, I was out weeding with my youngest, and my one neighbor walked over and asked if I’d like him to cut the grass. I said yes. 🙂 The dandelions are having a field day, and it all needs mowed again already, but the help was much appreciated – especially since I ended up being busy pretty much all day Saturday as well.
I’m thankful for the little moments with my youngest, who is still convinced she can decide not to grow up and she can simply stay with me forever.
I’m thankful for free Culver’s custard scoops and a bike ride to get there.
I am grateful that despite Saturday kind of getting unexpectedly hijacked, the day wasn’t completely ruined. I am thankful for the love and kindness others show to my kids.
I’m grateful that I actually have some tulips this year!
Thank you all for reading, praying, and all that you do!

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Coming in Broken

Even before the influx of people coming into the Orthodox Church after 2020, the Orthodox Church had a little bit of a reputation – at least in the United States – of being the church for people who really studied up on their faith, people who have read history and theology and such, and can debate great thinkers and theologians. Several years ago, I read the report of a bishop who suggested that when it came to opening churches, special attention should be paid to college towns, where in all likelihood there were young, educated people who, after sufficient study, might end up being interested in seeing what an Orthodox Christian church is actually like, and after that, might be convinced to pursue membership.
As I’ve spoken about before, this is not how I came into Orthodoxy. I think that there are certain aspects to theology that are more interesting than others, but I’m generally not a theology person. This ends up being something that many other recent converts don’t really understand well. Just recently, for example, an author on Substack asked a question to his readers asking which of the Church Fathers was most influential on them, particularly in their decisions to become Orthodox.
I don’t mean to be a completely annoying person online, but I felt I had to pipe up a little just to remind everybody that our saints aren’t all just theologians, that one can be completely and authentically an Orthodox Christian without ever reading a page of theology. Historically, a lot of reading was done in church because even if people could read, Bibles were very expensive, and so many people along the way became saints, probably rarely reading the Bible as well.
I’m still kind of processing something that happened on Sunday, and I hope to hash out a little of what I’m thinking about here. I was at coffee hour after church, and I ended up sitting next to a young man who had freshly experienced a huge trauma, and his distress and sorrow were palpable without him having to say a word. This young man obviously was of a lower social class than most of the people at the church, though no one there was treating him unkindly.
The priest of the parish had obviously had reached out to this person and had talked to him a bit. Sunday almost certainly had been the first time this young man had been to an Orthodox Church – and, who knows, maybe church of any kind – but he said he’d definitely be back. For many people, they say this because their curiosity has been piqued or something seemed very beautiful or right. With this young man, though, I got the impression that he said this because without it, he felt as though he might just drown as a secondary victim to the recent tragedy if he didn’t have some little thing to hold on to.
I’ve been praying for this young man all week. I hope he is able to not get sucked into a maelstrom of despair. I hope he is able to forge a better relationship with God, and with other people around him.
The thing is, were he to eventually come into the Orthodox Church, it would not be because any book or writer made a great argument. It would be because there were a couple of people who reached out to him in Christ-like love in what’s probably the darkest hour of his life.
Maybe this is too much to assume, but I don’t think he’s the type who would be interested in hard-core theology or the things that get debated endlessly online in “Orthodox” forums. I think some people look down on that, and I’ve experienced some of that myself. But I also think we ought not forget that God has a special place in His Kingdom for those of us who come with nothing to be proud of, that when we come broken and with nothing to offer to Him but ourselves, there is a special grace in that; that for all these types who like to demonstrate their “religiosity”, it’s a man who is willing to come to God on his knees, in tears, bloodied, and broken who is at a point to be healed by a God who loves him.
I really don’t want to say too much about the situation, but there’s a lot here that has given me cause to think and pray about. Also, if you are the type who does pray for people, please pray for Nathan.

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Sunday Gratitude – May the 4th be with you!

I need to get back into the habit of writing these! I do miss them, and I do think they are good for the soul.
This may sound corny or preachy or what have you, but I’m grateful to God for his Love and the sacrifice He made to save us. Pascha, all in all, was a beautiful (though exhausting) experience, but it’s justified in commemoration of truly astounding events.
I am extremely grateful that the high-risk pregnancy of a friend is over, and both mom and baby boy seem to be doing well.
I am thankful for friendships, and the life-sustaining place they have in a person’s life.
I am grateful for the opportunity to see someone again whom I care about deeply, even when the last time I saw this person, there was a good amount of anger and negativity involved. Enough time has passed that it was a good meeting, even when what precipitated the encounter was something quite terrible.
I am grateful for good music, and for people to make beautiful music with.
I am grateful for the friends who pick up the phone when I really, really need them to hear me.
I’m grateful that my youngest three kids seem to be all about biking this spring. I enjoy it too, and last year, my bike sat in the garage the entire year. This year, we’ve already been out a couple of times.
I’m grateful for hand-me-downs.

I’m grateful for conversations with friends who just happen to be outside because the weather is nice, and there are projects that need to get done.
I am grateful for the people who have stood behind me even when things get tough.
Thank you all for reading, praying, and all that you do!

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Autopilot

First off, Christ is Risen!
I don’t want to brush off Pascha (Easter), because it really was nice, and it’s an important celebration in the church year. At the same time, I’m still riding through a bit of a patch here, to be sure.
I almost managed to get the Christmas tree down before Pascha. The garland is off, as are 90% of the ornaments, but I didn’t get the project done when I thought I could get it done, and it’s been sitting here, waiting for me to finish for weeks.
There are just so many things like that, so many different “little” projects calling for my attention. After a couple of months now, I’ve finally gotten my bed cleared from the boxes I “temporarily” put there while clearing out the other bedrooms. It certainly didn’t help my sleep, but it’s taken several hours to go through all the miscellaneous stuff and pare it down to something a bit more manageable, where I can walk around the bed and not have to sleep across it. On the flip side of that, in the process of doing this, I finally hooked up the Blu-Ray player that was on “last chance clearance” that I bought several months ago to my computer monitor and it’s wonderful. (My Amazon list tells me that the splitter I needed for the audio was purchased back in September, so yes, it’s been awhile.)
I managed to get the couch cleared off back in March; immediately there were nine loads of clean laundry that went back on it, and I’ve been struggling to get it under control again.
I’m trying not to get too discouraged, frustrated, or angry about some of these things, but that is effort as well.
I find, too, that a good number of things I’ve been doing have kind of fallen into the category of autopilot, and I’m not thrilled with that. I drive a lot for the kids, and it’s the same roads and the same routes over and over and over again. Sometimes I’ll be driving, and I’ll know I’m on the way, but I’m also not quite sure where I am because it’s everything all over again. I missed the left turn at a *huge* intersection last week, because, apparently, I was just following the person in front of me or something. It wasn’t bad, because there was a “next chance” to turn, but little things like this are starting to drive me a little crazy.
There’s certainly advantages to having an “autopilot” mode; if we know what we’re doing, it doesn’t make sense to have to think about every decision again and again. I’ve even heard of people having several sets of the same clothing so that they don’t have to think about what they are going to wear; it’s going to be the same thing every day. Efficiency.
There’s part of me that’s always railed against this though. Not that the efficiency isn’t a good or helpful thing, but I hate it when I feel pulled into a stream where it hardly feels like it’s my life anymore, that the “autopilot” meant to assist in helping me has become a river pulling me along without any hope of getting out of it.
I’ve been doing poorly with prayer, and when I do get to, say, my list, or the Psalms or what have you, it seems like I’m barely paying attention; that on one hand, I know these things so well, and on the other, I couldn’t tell you what was the line before the one I’m reading. This morning, I got distracted by something totally ridiculous, and I ended up frustrated with myself for not holding the attention.
A little bit of sleep will surely help. I’m hoping that as the school years wind down, I feel a little less pressure all around. I’m hoping too, that the feeling of being on autopilot so much fades a bit too.

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Lilla Rose Update – May 2025

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First of all, I apologize again for my silence – if it’s not one thing, it’s another, and right now, it’s “Maycember“!
However, for once, I’m here fast enough to bring to your attention one of the Fun Fridays offers – Amplifying Foam for $8. This offer is good only through 9pm PST (Midnight EST).
There is no “May Fool” joke this month, so I will start with the normal stuff.
May flowers indeed! This month’s Mane Event flexi is “Kaylani” and I find it to be quite elegant. It’s pictured here in a beach setting, but I could imagine it also being fitting for a much more formal occasion.
May’s other big “new release” is “Talia”, and as you can see, there’s definitely a vibe of getting ready to go out and enjoy time in the sun. (Outside my window is overcast and 45F, so… maybe not today.) The Lilla Rose clips like this are really quite sturdy, and can take wet hair easily without getting damaged.
With Mother’s Day coming up soon, a couple of gift ideas –
(Maya is my favorite of this bunch, though no, I’m not fishing for gifts!)
And, yes, I’ll also share what the monthly offer is here – a free bottle of Thermal Defense spray with orders of $60 or more.

That’s it for now, especially considering that at the moment, my hair just needs to be washed… It’s funny, I’ve had people tell me that washing really long hair terribly often will damage it, and I’ve had it suggested to me at least once that I ought not wash it more than once a month. (Mind you, this was advice coming from people who grew up in the Soviet Union.) I just have to wonder, though, if a person has to be much more careful about keeping it styled (braiding, etc.) and keeping it under a headscarf or bandana a good bit of the time because it doesn’t take much more than a week without washing my hair for me for my scalp to get itchy and my hair to feel oily. (Which reminds me of this video, which I thought was pretty neat a couple of years ago.)
https://www.lillarose.com/katja

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Sunday Gratitude – 13.IV.2025

The last few days have been tough; I’m the type of person who wants to have a plan for every eventuality (even if I don’t stick to the plan) and… that’s just not possible. I can live wisely, and I can be prepared for a certain number of things, but I can’t possibly know what exactly will be happening next week, much less six months from now or five years from now.

I’m very frustrated that the house always seems to look like a tornado went through it, and I get frustrated with myself for not doing more, and not pushing myself through feeling awful to just get stuff done. There are three things that really trip me up – one, I’m absolutely tired of everything house-related; two, I get very frustrated with the kids finding socks stuffed in the furniture and plates on the floor in the basement or what-have you; and three, there’s a ton of dust that gets disturbed, and even a few years ago it didn’t seem to bother me, but now, it just makes me feel awful. However, it may sound like a silly thing, but I know I’ve had two bedrooms completely clean this year, and I got a good part of the family room done, and slowly getting through the cycle takes a little bit less each time. It’s still painfully slow, but it’s progress. Besides that, though, I’ve found a good number of things – including gift cards and money – that have been lost for varying amounts of time, and I have found things for the kids as well, and I’m grateful for that.
I’m thankful for the extra church services attached to Lent, and being able to go to some and getting to sing. I don’t go just to sing, but I hardly know what I would do with myself if I weren’t singing. There have been sometimes recently where it seems like even though our numbers are small (often only two or three), we’re kind of hitting a stride with the music, and it sounds so lovely. I’m grateful for the opportunity, and thankful for being part of something like that.
Over the last couple of weeks, there have been a couple of opportunities to talk to people in person in a more one-on-one setting than normal, and that has been really nice. One of these things involved a quick trip south of the border (to Illinois, that is!) and the other was at someone’s house.
Friday was sunny and about 50F, and my youngest begged me to go play outside. I didn’t want her out by herself, so I decided to go out and work on getting bikes in working order, knowing that the one had a very flat tire, and Amazon delivered to me the replacement innertube. In any case, I remembered the “Trail-a-Bike” that has been hanging in our garage for the better part of a decade, and I got it down to see if it’s still usable. (It was a hand-me-down from older relatives.) It never made sense to use it before because even with kids in the age range for it (4-6), there was usually always a younger kid, and so, if anything, we were using the bike trailer. However, I got this thing down, figured out how it can fit on my bike, and we went on an impromptu bike ride of nearly 2.5 miles to test it out. She was in heaven! She thought it was the greatest thing! She must have been waving to other bikers, because basically everyone we saw biking said hello, and there was even one lady who was teasing her a little with, “I’m going to catch up to you!” or something silly like that, and even though I couldn’t see her, I could hear her giggling. It was a lot of fun, and totally unexpected. Her brother was with us, and he had a blast too. 🙂
I am also thankful for very practical things, such as the friends who made purchases through my links at Amazon to help get my new Associates account fully established. You rock!
In any case, thank you again for reading, for praying, and for coming along on this adventure. 🙂

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