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Sunday Gratitude – 2.VIII.2026

Boy, has it been busy the last couple of weeks! More appointments than I could shake a stick at, and a couple of weekend events as well. I’m very grateful that things pretty much went off without a hitch, and appointments were met, things a t home have been pretty quiet, and events were enjoyable.

One of the events that I went to last Sunday was German Fest in Milwaukee. I had toyed with the idea of biking the 16 or so miles up to church, and then continuing on the eight from church to the fest, but I’m happy that I didn’t do that. Instead, I put my bike in the car and drove up to church, changed quickly afterwards in the bathroom, then biked the 8 up to German Fest. I had never biked along the Lakefront Path before, and it was really beautiful, albeit busy with people, making it impossible to go very fast. For me, one of the draws is that I get to see people I know, and so that was really fun. (I just wish my German dress still fit me.)
I biked the 8 miles back to the car, and at the end I was tired, and I was grateful I didn’t have 16 more to go, but I didn’t feel terrible either. Last year, I parked in a place where it was a four mile ride from my car to the fest, and on the way back, I felt like I was dying. However, I probably hadn’t even been on a bike in at least 2-3 years before then. And now, well, between the Thursday afternoon before German Fest and the following Friday afternoon, I biked over fifty miles, and it was challenging, but fun. 🙂 I’m grateful for the opportunity to be working on my health.
Silly thing, but my older son was looking for 32 gigabyte SD cards for something. I figured that that was easy enough; as long as I can remember, those things aren’t wildly expensive. Imagine my shock when I walked into Best Buy to get one, and they all seemed to be over $45. Insane. I told him to hold off on buying one, and though I often have miscellaneous extra memory cards and such around, there was nothing that would help him in this instance. Mind you, though, that I haven’t purchased any of these in at least 3 years. The next day, he and his sister went to the gym, and I decided to check out WalMart. Wouldn’t you know, but the price was almost as bad. However, there were two associates who came up right by me, one of them holding a plastic case. Wouldn’t you know, but there were two 32GB SD cards in it. They seemed to be confused about where they wanted to put the item, as it had originally come from the outdoor section, as these two were marketed for trail cams. Nobody is looking for SD cards in the outdoor section! I’m sure this is why this was marked down to $8.50. I proceeded to ask if I could buy it, and they were happy to oblige me, as that also meant that they didn’t have to find a place to put them in the case. I am very grateful I didn’t have to shell out three times as much for the same item.
After German Fest, I went over to my church’s church picnic. That was fun, too. The location is great, and it’s nice to hang out with good people. Summer days are beautiful like that.
Speaking of summer days, we finally got some rain. I don’t think it rained at all in July until the 27th and it was kind of sad seeing everybody’s lawns turning brown. I had mowed right around the last week of June, and I had meant to a couple of weeks after that, and I actually started to, but after about 10 minutes of mowing, I twisted my ankle and it hurt too much to keep going. By the next day already, I didn’t know if it was safe to mow, but it was interesting to see how those strips that I did mow turned very, very brown, and I’m grateful I didn’t cut the whole lawn and have it looking like that.
On the weather front, we had strong storms that came through on the 27th. Friends of mine in Milwaukee had power knocked out, but here, thankfully, we kept power, there was no hail, etc. Unfortunately, this was not the case in all of Wisconsin, and the town of Menasha, in particular, got hit badly. My kids and I signed up for an event months ago that takes place in this area; once I heard that there was a tornado, I checked back to see if the event had been cancelled. It didn’t seem to be, so we drove up to the area and just happened to end up on the street here that this man is driving on in the first 3 minutes of the video here.
How did I end up in Menasha? Well, our first destination was in a small town called Combined Locks. The driving on the interstate had been miserable due to rain, and at a certain point, I couldn’t take it any more, and looked for the first exit off, knowing I could come up the western side of Lake Winnebago to get to where I wanted to go. It just happens that Menasha is pretty much on the western side of the tip of Lake Winnebago, so by getting off the interstate, it pretty much meant going through Menasha. It was weird, too, because at first, I just noticed that there were a lot of tree branches and stuff on the sides of the road, and it kind of dawned on me that that must have been a result of the storm. I did not know that within about 15 minutes, we’d be driving through a disaster zone like this. The crazy thing is, though, that once I got through Menasha, my destination was about six miles down the road, and over there, things looked completely normal. For as bad as the tornado was though, it’s amazing that not a single person was killed – certainly something to be grateful for.
The event that the little kids and I went to was a bike ride/music festival called “Bike to the Beat“. The event took place on Saturday, but the four of us made a little mini-vacation out of it, and it was an awful lot of fun. The drive up was absolutely horrendous, lasting 4 hours when 2.5 is more normal. It rained the whole time and there were accidents and road construction in the Milwaukee area. I was so incredibly grateful both to get off the interstate and to actually arrive at the hotel.

BIke to the Beat was amazing, even apart from a couple of wrinkles in the day, and I am grateful that there were no mechanical issues with the bikes, we had all the tools, I didn’t forget any pedals or anything, etc. More than that though, the kids enjoyed the hotel a lot and we took a little detour through Manitowoc on the way back, and it was really a good trip. I’m the type of person who is always trying to anticipate what might go wrong in order to avoid any pitfalls, and when things go off with no major issues, I am grateful.
I’m grateful, too, that after far too long, I got to video chat with a dear friend. I’m grateful, too that through everything, the friendship holds.
Wow, it’s been a full couple of weeks! Thank you all for your patience with me! I am certainly grateful for all of you!

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Sunday Gratitude – 1.IX.2024

Yes, I know it’s Monday again, but it is a long weekend, so we’re kind of in that weird world where it isn’t Sunday, but it doesn’t necessarily feel like Monday either.
I am grateful that the school stuff seems to be going okay so far. There was one small issue, but I think it’s resolved, and at the very least, the teacher knows what to keep an eye out for.
I am grateful to be able to do things for other people – this may sound silly, but I’m trying very hard to make an effort to reach out and I think it’s generally a good thing. When my kids see it – well, at least the younger ones – I think that at some level they understand what’s happening, that running “church bread” over to a family when they’re feeling sick or what have you might be a little thing, but it’s a good thing.
I’m grateful that we did something the kids thought was quite fun this weekend and that the weather was beautiful for it.
I’m grateful that we have ways of keeping micro-preemies alive – if this seems like a totally random observation, this might explain (the people are friends of mine): https://www.mealtrain.com/trains/47dg66 . I am thankful that there are people who are keeping them all in prayer and who are pitching in to help.
I’m thankful for the opportunity to get to know some of my internet friends better without the computers, and I’m excited for a plan a couple of us are working toward.

Thank you all for reading – I appreciate you all very much!

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Wordless Wednesday #67 – Nintendo 2DS photography








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Sunday Gratitude – 25 August 2024

Well, three of the kids are back in school, and as much as it is hard to get back in gear, I’m also thankful for it because we need that structure to resume.
I am grateful that there are people around who care for me, both near and far.
I am grateful to get back in contact with people I haven’t been in contact for a good long while. They are the people who end up giving a person pieces of one’s self that have been lost along the way.
I am thankful that there are people who enjoy chatting with me on the phone or over breakfast, just because.
I’m grateful that the weather hasn’t been too crazy. Today was hot, and the next couple of days seem like they’ll be quite hot, but earlier this week, with the beginning of school, it really seemed like fall. In the meantime, the world is so incredibly green and colorful, it’s just amazing.

I’m grateful that I was able to find a couple of things I had lost – and had remained lost for quite awhile. I’m still having trouble finding a couple of other things, but there are certain ways to work around this.
I’ve felt myself kind of stalling out in the last few weeks; hopefully, I’ll be able to “restart” a little with the change in routine. I am very grateful for all of you who read, and who pray for me and others, and say hello now and again. 🙂

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Wordless Wednesday #66 – An Evening in Auckland









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Sunday Gratitude – 4.VIII.2024

It’s kind of been a weird week; I felt awful on Wednesday with soreness and sinus issues, and while I am doing much better, there’s still traces of the sinus issues lingering.
I am grateful that in the last couple of weeks, I have gotten to see or talk to a bunch of people who are “near” me. My introvert side is still kind of weirded out about that, but it’s not a bad thing.
I’m grateful that even with the high humidity, the temperatures haven’t been horrible, and so the air conditioning can more or less keep up with it.
I am grateful to be reminded of nice things; I found a box of manuka honey soap at Marshall’s when I was shopping with my cousin, and the scent is heavenly. The box of eight bars was $10; on Amazon something very similar seems to start at $36. Manuka honey always reminds me of New Zealand, so very far away… (I could have sworn I had a Wordless Wednesday post on New Zealand, but I can’t find anything.)

AI prompt: Manuka honey soap I am grateful for middle daughter’s striving to help. She’s offered to make me tea a number of times this week and there are times when she’s actually been generally helpful with stuff.
I’m grateful I made it to church with the three youngest today. They were very, very tired, but we made it.
I’m thankful that the replacement for a recalled item finally showed up.
I’m thankful that middle daughter got to visit one of her favorite pets this week. The poor girl loves the animals but can’t take too much at a time because of allergies.
I was thankful for the loosening up of the schedule for the summer, but I think I will be thankful again when there’s more structure.
I am grateful for you who read and interact. I never forget that.

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Orthodox Help – Help the Kulp Family Purchase a Coffee Trailer


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NPC World

For those of you not familiar with the term “NPC”, it comes from video gaming, and stands for “non-playable character”. In a game like the Legend of Zelda (or any of the games in the series), as a player, you play as Link and control his actions. As he explores the world, he comes into contact with lots of other characters, but the player has no control over them. Most serve some sort of purpose to further the gameplay – and so are not hostile to the character you play (well, there’s Magda) – but sometimes are hilariously limited in their actions, blithely continuing on with their tasks even when being attacked or when monsters appear or an emergency occurs. This makes sense from a programming perspective, because the majority have one purpose for being in the game, but this inability to “think” enough to react to situations is quite funny.
Over the last couple of years, the term “NPC” has been bandied about, usually in reference to unthinking people, the kind who can be “programmed”, so to speak, to parrot whatever the opinion of the day is, in order to make it seem like there’s large consensus on an issue. “NPC” not only insinuates that these people have been programmed, but that discussion of a topic is futile since they have no individuality or thinking capacity.

As with almost all humor these days, the NPC meme is offensive to some. It’s funny to me having played a good number of video games and having come to the age where one understands that there is no changing most people’s minds through having a logical argument. We filter “facts” through our beliefs, and changing belief is a much more fundamental thing, but I digress…
If you will recall, I mentioned that NPCs are usually programmed to further the character being played along his journey – although programmed to be unthinking, they do perform a task of some sort. It’s on this point that I’ve been pondering the last few days; that we all have to be extraordinarily careful not to treat the people who play minor roles in our lives as NPCs.

One of the most famous NPCs in gaming. Once his “task” of giving Link the sword is completed, he conveniently magically disappears, never to be seen again. I remember many years ago, perhaps in 2000, when I was working retail. I was travelling on Thanksgiving, and I and a couple of family members went through the McDonalds’ drive through for a quick breakfast on a trip to visit other family. Mind you, most of these fast-food places close by noon, but I remember telling the girl at the window something like, “Thank you very much. I appreciate it.” One of the family members travelling with me looked at me like I had just sprouted an alien antenna from my head and asked me why I had done that. I responded, “Well, it’s Thanksgiving for them too.” I tell you, I don’t think this family member had ever considered that before; in her head, the people working at McDonalds on Thanksgiving were NPCs who were there to serve people travelling on Thanksgiving.
Unfortunately, it seems like there’s more and more of that. When we interact with other people, it’s in a way that is oblivious to anything besides how they are useful to our journey. I even have seen this in regard to clergy; that a priest, for example, is there for church services, to baptize, marry, and bury, period. The idea that one’s relationship goes beyond the “business” services here is foreign to many. He’s become an NPC.
This sort of meshes in with the idea that humans are less individuals with souls and more cogs in a great machine, to be used and replaced as needed. Furthermore, I would argue, the idea of DEI brings this to a new level with the idea that excellence (or even competency) is beside the point and in most cases, any one person is enough like another person, and the machine is so big, that one NPC can be replaced for another without doing more than negligible damage to the whole. It’s dehumanizing.
Recently, it’s just seemed ever more important to take the effort not to treat people like they are NPCs. I’m not saying that one has to learn the life story of the person taking your picture at the DMV. What I am saying, though, is that there are ways to work on staying human with people… Things like making eye contact, being polite (saying “hello”, “please”, and “thank you”), being patient, if you notice something good, give a compliment, if you notice something weird, expressing that to someone near you, listening in general, etc. For me, I’m an introvert, and it’s hard, but, for instance, there’s a gas station near my house and we often stop by for sodas (especially in the summer, with their $1 deal). I don’t know the people well, but I love going there and seeing a “friend”, and I also know I’m one of their favorite customers as well. I don’t know them outside of the store there, but they certainly are individual people to me (whom I enjoy seeing), rather than “the help” who can never check out my items quickly enough.
I don’t know; it just seems like this has been put on my heart as of late, and it seems important, even if it’s not exactly easy to explain it. I just know I don’t want to live in a place where we’ve ceased to be human with each other, in other words, an NPC world.

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Sunday Gratitude – 28.VII.2024

This was a busy weekend, and while I am grateful for the chance to have seen people and “gotten out” a bit, I am grateful for some quiet time coming back home as well.
On this day of the birthday of a friend who has known me for decades, I am incredibly grateful for those friendships. There was a period of my life where I was moving around quite a bit, and it’s kind of incredible that there are people who have stuck with me for such a long time and over great distances.

St. Nikola Chapel I was talking to a friend earlier in the week, and she could tell that I was getting frustrated and overwhelmed with all the stuff here that is still in the “projects waiting to be done” category. She suggested, as much as possible, taking a little step back and working on gratitude that this was the set of issues going on, rather than, say, issues of mere survival. Something inside me still doesn’t like hearing that sort of “correction”, but she said so with love, and as a way to pull back for a bit more “big picture” perspective. Sometimes we all need that, even when it isn’t comfortable.
I am thankful that I got to spend time with a relative and that she seemed to have been cheered by the visit. The day gave me a few things to consider, and those things keep floating around my head.
I am thankful for this life.
Dear reader, I am grateful for you.

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Two months of walking

I have been walking two miles pretty much every day, six days a week since the end of May. I usually go in the morning, though not nearly as early as I did when I was walking a few years ago. The biggest difference is that there are definitely more people out later than at 5am. It’s been kind of nice just to chat with neighbors and such.
In any case, I haven’t been using a scale. I’m too embarrassed. I don’t want to know right now. However, I have noticed that a lot of my clothes are fitting differently (and usually better). I’m noticing more strength when I walk, and the shooting plantar fasciitis heel pain has been greatly reduced. However, I am still dealing with my feet hurting, especially in the morning, but it’s a different type of pain. (I have had issues with foot pain on and off since I was six. I inherited oddly-shaped feet.)
The last time I consistently walked, I did so for about six months and I ended up losing something like 20 pounds. I really liked doing that as well, but I was also waking up at 4:30am to make that happen. Coming into the school year again, I’m probably going to be getting into a situation where if I want to walk in the mornings, it will probably mean waking up that early again, and I’m just not sure if I can do that – but we’ll cross that bridge when we get to it, I suppose.
As I was thinking over these things, Patrice over at Rural Revolution posted this – Slow Progress is Still Progress – and it’s something that I’m trying to keep in mind so as not to get too discouraged.
I do want to take a moment to thank the person – whomever it may be for the surprise gift of the book “The Stripping of the Altars – Traditional Religion in England 1400-1580” by Eamon Duffy. Boy, picking up the package out of the mailbox, I kid you not, but I asked myself if it might be a brick in there! *L*
It’s all one foot in front of the other, isn’t it?

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Help Rebuild St. Theodosius Cathedral


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