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Sunday Gratitude – 2.VIII.2026

Boy, has it been busy the last couple of weeks! More appointments than I could shake a stick at, and a couple of weekend events as well. I’m very grateful that things pretty much went off without a hitch, and appointments were met, things a t home have been pretty quiet, and events were enjoyable.

One of the events that I went to last Sunday was German Fest in Milwaukee. I had toyed with the idea of biking the 16 or so miles up to church, and then continuing on the eight from church to the fest, but I’m happy that I didn’t do that. Instead, I put my bike in the car and drove up to church, changed quickly afterwards in the bathroom, then biked the 8 up to German Fest. I had never biked along the Lakefront Path before, and it was really beautiful, albeit busy with people, making it impossible to go very fast. For me, one of the draws is that I get to see people I know, and so that was really fun. (I just wish my German dress still fit me.)
I biked the 8 miles back to the car, and at the end I was tired, and I was grateful I didn’t have 16 more to go, but I didn’t feel terrible either. Last year, I parked in a place where it was a four mile ride from my car to the fest, and on the way back, I felt like I was dying. However, I probably hadn’t even been on a bike in at least 2-3 years before then. And now, well, between the Thursday afternoon before German Fest and the following Friday afternoon, I biked over fifty miles, and it was challenging, but fun. 🙂 I’m grateful for the opportunity to be working on my health.
Silly thing, but my older son was looking for 32 gigabyte SD cards for something. I figured that that was easy enough; as long as I can remember, those things aren’t wildly expensive. Imagine my shock when I walked into Best Buy to get one, and they all seemed to be over $45. Insane. I told him to hold off on buying one, and though I often have miscellaneous extra memory cards and such around, there was nothing that would help him in this instance. Mind you, though, that I haven’t purchased any of these in at least 3 years. The next day, he and his sister went to the gym, and I decided to check out WalMart. Wouldn’t you know, but the price was almost as bad. However, there were two associates who came up right by me, one of them holding a plastic case. Wouldn’t you know, but there were two 32GB SD cards in it. They seemed to be confused about where they wanted to put the item, as it had originally come from the outdoor section, as these two were marketed for trail cams. Nobody is looking for SD cards in the outdoor section! I’m sure this is why this was marked down to $8.50. I proceeded to ask if I could buy it, and they were happy to oblige me, as that also meant that they didn’t have to find a place to put them in the case. I am very grateful I didn’t have to shell out three times as much for the same item.
After German Fest, I went over to my church’s church picnic. That was fun, too. The location is great, and it’s nice to hang out with good people. Summer days are beautiful like that.
Speaking of summer days, we finally got some rain. I don’t think it rained at all in July until the 27th and it was kind of sad seeing everybody’s lawns turning brown. I had mowed right around the last week of June, and I had meant to a couple of weeks after that, and I actually started to, but after about 10 minutes of mowing, I twisted my ankle and it hurt too much to keep going. By the next day already, I didn’t know if it was safe to mow, but it was interesting to see how those strips that I did mow turned very, very brown, and I’m grateful I didn’t cut the whole lawn and have it looking like that.
On the weather front, we had strong storms that came through on the 27th. Friends of mine in Milwaukee had power knocked out, but here, thankfully, we kept power, there was no hail, etc. Unfortunately, this was not the case in all of Wisconsin, and the town of Menasha, in particular, got hit badly. My kids and I signed up for an event months ago that takes place in this area; once I heard that there was a tornado, I checked back to see if the event had been cancelled. It didn’t seem to be, so we drove up to the area and just happened to end up on the street here that this man is driving on in the first 3 minutes of the video here.
How did I end up in Menasha? Well, our first destination was in a small town called Combined Locks. The driving on the interstate had been miserable due to rain, and at a certain point, I couldn’t take it any more, and looked for the first exit off, knowing I could come up the western side of Lake Winnebago to get to where I wanted to go. It just happens that Menasha is pretty much on the western side of the tip of Lake Winnebago, so by getting off the interstate, it pretty much meant going through Menasha. It was weird, too, because at first, I just noticed that there were a lot of tree branches and stuff on the sides of the road, and it kind of dawned on me that that must have been a result of the storm. I did not know that within about 15 minutes, we’d be driving through a disaster zone like this. The crazy thing is, though, that once I got through Menasha, my destination was about six miles down the road, and over there, things looked completely normal. For as bad as the tornado was though, it’s amazing that not a single person was killed – certainly something to be grateful for.
The event that the little kids and I went to was a bike ride/music festival called “Bike to the Beat“. The event took place on Saturday, but the four of us made a little mini-vacation out of it, and it was an awful lot of fun. The drive up was absolutely horrendous, lasting 4 hours when 2.5 is more normal. It rained the whole time and there were accidents and road construction in the Milwaukee area. I was so incredibly grateful both to get off the interstate and to actually arrive at the hotel.

BIke to the Beat was amazing, even apart from a couple of wrinkles in the day, and I am grateful that there were no mechanical issues with the bikes, we had all the tools, I didn’t forget any pedals or anything, etc. More than that though, the kids enjoyed the hotel a lot and we took a little detour through Manitowoc on the way back, and it was really a good trip. I’m the type of person who is always trying to anticipate what might go wrong in order to avoid any pitfalls, and when things go off with no major issues, I am grateful.
I’m grateful, too, that after far too long, I got to video chat with a dear friend. I’m grateful, too that through everything, the friendship holds.
Wow, it’s been a full couple of weeks! Thank you all for your patience with me! I am certainly grateful for all of you!

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Saturday on Substack – 29.VII.2023

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Cousins, connections, and death

One of the advantages of having had great-grandmothers who lived long enough for me to know them is that I got to know their other great-grandchildren. In the case of both my parents, they had cousins with whom they had been close when they were younger, but had drifted away from as they became adults. However, because those grandparents were still living, it lent itself to occasions where we were all in attendance. When my great-grandma Elsie died in 1989, all her great-grandchildren made it to the funeral, and even then, at nine years old, I realized that this was probably going to be the last time that this would ever happen.
My dad only had three cousins on his mom’s side, but since that great-grandma (Mayme) lived across the street from her son and his family, my memories of visiting her always involved them as well. The oldest of the three, I don’t remember so well, and the youngest of the three was closer in age to me than my dad, who was his actual cousin, but eventually those two would leave as life took them other places, and it was the middle cousin of my dad’s who stayed, got married, got a job, had kids, etc.
Those kids were second cousins, yes, but that’s a pretty unwieldy title outside of genealogy, so, for the most part, those kids of the middle son were just cousins too. (What’s funny is that of all my first- and second- cousins, it’s actually one of the second cousins that I’m the closest to; the last time I saw any of my first cousins was in 2010.)
In any case, I was informed this afternoon that one of those second cousins – one of the “little kids” of my childhood took his own life a couple days ago. He was 35, the father of three boys of his own, the oldest of whom are four. I understand that he was in an awful lot of psychological pain after serving in Iraq, and especially after working on military bases, I’m very sympathetic to that. At the same time, he’s done something unbelievably evil to his kids; while they may not even remember him much as they grow older, no one can take his place in their lives, no one can fix what he’s broken here.
The boys’ mother, the “love of his life”, as the obituary reads, is now left dealing with her own sadness, her own devastation, while at the same time trying to keep up not just with the demands that three little boys of that age and trying to help them through this darkness. It’s not something that can ever go completely.
My mind is trying to wrap itself around the fact that he’s gone, as well as around the fact that he’d do this to these people so dear to him.
In any case, if you are so inclined, any prayer for Isaiah’s family or for his soul is much appreciated.
Isaiah Trovall obituary (St. Cloud Times)
A picture of the boys and their mom (probably from last fall) can be found at the GoFundMe site that friends set up: https://www.gofundme.com/f/lyla-matthewman
A cute news tidbit about the twins from when they were born – apparently they were the first set of twins born in the Twin Cities area (if not the whole state) in 2019. (Minnesota Twins, get it?) https://www.startribune.com/girl-born-at-maple-grove-hospital-makes-claim-for-first-baby-in-twin-cities-in-2019/503775802/?refresh=true

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Wordless Wednesday #39 – Mostly related to Ferris wheels







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Lilla Rose Christmas in July Sale! Final Day!

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Today is the last day of Lilla Rose’s “Christmas in July” sale. Again, this is one of their best promotions of the year, and a great time to try out products or to give them as gifts.

Today’s deal is 40% off hair essentials. I don’t have a lot of experience with most of these, but I do know my kids really have enjoyed the hair mascara! (Which reminds me, I ought to find those so that the kids can use them before school starts!)

To see the details for the entire sale, see my previous post. Don’t miss out!
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Making it through the darkest hour

Years ago, when my mom and I were at my grandma’s house, I had spent a little while at the church cemetery on the same square mile. At least half the people there are related to me in one way or another, but on this particular day, I noticed the headstone of a young man who had died in the early 1930s at the age of 22.
He had a little bit of an unusual name, paired with a name that I knew was related to me, so I ended up mentioning him to my mom when I got back along with the line, “I wonder what happened to him”.
Surprisingly enough, she seemed to know. “He got his wisdom teeth removed and shot himself because of the pain.”
WHAT? He shot himself after getting teeth removed? Now, mind you, I had wisdom teeth that came in and probably would have killed me if I hadn’t had them removed (as far as they were in, I had already become deaf in one ear and could barely move my jaw) so I knew what wisdom tooth pain could be like. But after the removal of the teeth? Wouldn’t it stand to reason that the worst of the pain was over, no matter how bad wisdom tooth operations of the day were?
The official obituary for this young man just mentioned that he had had the dental procedure done, and died later in the day as a result of the stress and strain of the ordeal. The newspaper stories tell a little bit more of the reality of the situation, but the death certificate was absolutely grotesque, not just recording the gunshot wound as the cause of death, but how the bullet passed through his body and it is fairly graphic as to what damage it did in its wake.
In reading contemporaneous news stories, one other detail came to light. This young man, by all accounts, was very bright, loved a lot of the farm work, and had even been nationally recognized in competition related to animals and such. Apparently, about two years before his death, he had fallen from a “trapeze” and hit his head hard enough that he was unconscious for a few minutes before regaining consciousness. Reports were that he was never the same afterwards, and even back then, this was taken into account that at the time of his suicide, his reasoning was almost certainly already impaired.
That being said, it’s still a sad, sad story. However, it seems like these days, there are a lot of times when people are just ready to give up.
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Lilla Rose Christmas in July Sale! Day 5

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Yes, I missed two days of posting for Lilla Rose’s “Christmas in July” sale! Things have been busy!

Anyway, today’s special is 40% off Flexi-flips… They’re neat, because they give a person two different sizes in one.

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Sunday Gratitude – 23.VII.2023 – Outside

This was another week that seemed to fly by, despite the fact that it’s been a tough one mentally. I am hoping that the visit by the plumber fixed the issue, and I’m lined up this next week to have the car looked at, then there’s finding a carpenter or window guy, but I’m trying to avoid getting too bogged down in it all. I’m very, very grateful that it appears this issue was a small one.
We missed church today; for the life of me, I couldn’t sleep, and I didn’t get myself to sleep until about 5am. This is absolutely not conducive to getting up, getting ready, waking kids up, and getting to church by 10am. I always feel bad about these things, but it would have been downright dangerous to try to drive on less than four hours of sleep.

It was warm enough that I put the pools out for the kids to play in on Wednesday or Thursday. I went around and pulled a lot more weeds, especially thistles. Even in the midst of some real difficult things, the sunshine and the improvement in the look of the yard are things I am thankful for, and helped improve how I was feeling a little bit.
This afternoon, a former classmate of one of my kids had a birthday party; it was a fairly low-key thing, but I stuck around since my kids were being kind of shy to begin with. It was absolutely gorgeous; sunny and about 78. The kids ran around and played in the pool or the sprinkler or with the swings and sand. It’s been a tough year for them as well, and to be able to enjoy the day and the camaraderie of time and place was really nice. I am grateful that I got to experience that, and I am thankful to the one child who was there who wasn’t thrilled about it, that he didn’t complain too loudly about the visit taking “too long”.
I am grateful that I’m in contact with a priest who actually sent me a note asking how thing are going. Mind you, I know a lot of priests, and a few are even friends, but I don’t expect that. At some point, some sort of better situation in regard to church must be ironed out, but his note reminded me that it’s possible for things to improve on that front as well.
I am grateful that I got to chat with an old friend for awhile. It’s really been too long! (She had actually tried to text me a few days back, but the text didn’t get through, and somehow I just got the idea on Friday that I ought to call her. Coincidence?)

I am thankful for toddler kisses and silly stories, mispronounced words, and kids who still see the world with wonder. I’m grateful to rejoice in little things with them no matter how crazy the world is all around; the joy of finally climbing up to the top of a slide that was formerly too hard to do alone, “flying” on a zip-line, etc.
I am thankful for each one of you, for reading, for those who share their writing as well, and for those of you who support this blog in whatever capacity, even if it’s with a random “hello!”

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Saturday on Substack – 22.VII.2023

Saturday, Saturday, Saturday’s randomness on Substack. Join me over there tonight:
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Not dead yet… Celebrating one year of this blog (video)

It’s been an incredibly long time since I did a video post, so without further ado, just a little bit of “rambling” from yours truly about this blog’s first anniversary.
(The audio podcast can be found at Spotify for Podcasters )
All the best!

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Lilla Rose Christmas in July Sale! Day 2

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Just to reiterate, Lilla Rose’s “Christmas in July” sale is one of the best sales they have all year, and a great time to try them out if you’ve been thinking about it.

This sale is runs from 21-26 July 2023
To see all the details, see my previous post.
Today’s daily deal is on hair sticks

As someone with very long hair, and who has ditched elastics, I have come to love hair sticks – they are a simple and easy way to keep hair up and out of the way with an all-day hold. I have two sets of Lilla Rose hair sticks – one with the birthstones of my kids, and the other with bees. The hair sticks aren’t the only way I keep my hair up and out of the way, but I much prefer them to elastics. Click below to see some of the beautiful hair stick designs Lilla Rose has!
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