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Sunday Gratitude – 2.VIII.2026

Boy, has it been busy the last couple of weeks! More appointments than I could shake a stick at, and a couple of weekend events as well. I’m very grateful that things pretty much went off without a hitch, and appointments were met, things a t home have been pretty quiet, and events were enjoyable.

One of the events that I went to last Sunday was German Fest in Milwaukee. I had toyed with the idea of biking the 16 or so miles up to church, and then continuing on the eight from church to the fest, but I’m happy that I didn’t do that. Instead, I put my bike in the car and drove up to church, changed quickly afterwards in the bathroom, then biked the 8 up to German Fest. I had never biked along the Lakefront Path before, and it was really beautiful, albeit busy with people, making it impossible to go very fast. For me, one of the draws is that I get to see people I know, and so that was really fun. (I just wish my German dress still fit me.)
I biked the 8 miles back to the car, and at the end I was tired, and I was grateful I didn’t have 16 more to go, but I didn’t feel terrible either. Last year, I parked in a place where it was a four mile ride from my car to the fest, and on the way back, I felt like I was dying. However, I probably hadn’t even been on a bike in at least 2-3 years before then. And now, well, between the Thursday afternoon before German Fest and the following Friday afternoon, I biked over fifty miles, and it was challenging, but fun. 🙂 I’m grateful for the opportunity to be working on my health.
Silly thing, but my older son was looking for 32 gigabyte SD cards for something. I figured that that was easy enough; as long as I can remember, those things aren’t wildly expensive. Imagine my shock when I walked into Best Buy to get one, and they all seemed to be over $45. Insane. I told him to hold off on buying one, and though I often have miscellaneous extra memory cards and such around, there was nothing that would help him in this instance. Mind you, though, that I haven’t purchased any of these in at least 3 years. The next day, he and his sister went to the gym, and I decided to check out WalMart. Wouldn’t you know, but the price was almost as bad. However, there were two associates who came up right by me, one of them holding a plastic case. Wouldn’t you know, but there were two 32GB SD cards in it. They seemed to be confused about where they wanted to put the item, as it had originally come from the outdoor section, as these two were marketed for trail cams. Nobody is looking for SD cards in the outdoor section! I’m sure this is why this was marked down to $8.50. I proceeded to ask if I could buy it, and they were happy to oblige me, as that also meant that they didn’t have to find a place to put them in the case. I am very grateful I didn’t have to shell out three times as much for the same item.
After German Fest, I went over to my church’s church picnic. That was fun, too. The location is great, and it’s nice to hang out with good people. Summer days are beautiful like that.
Speaking of summer days, we finally got some rain. I don’t think it rained at all in July until the 27th and it was kind of sad seeing everybody’s lawns turning brown. I had mowed right around the last week of June, and I had meant to a couple of weeks after that, and I actually started to, but after about 10 minutes of mowing, I twisted my ankle and it hurt too much to keep going. By the next day already, I didn’t know if it was safe to mow, but it was interesting to see how those strips that I did mow turned very, very brown, and I’m grateful I didn’t cut the whole lawn and have it looking like that.
On the weather front, we had strong storms that came through on the 27th. Friends of mine in Milwaukee had power knocked out, but here, thankfully, we kept power, there was no hail, etc. Unfortunately, this was not the case in all of Wisconsin, and the town of Menasha, in particular, got hit badly. My kids and I signed up for an event months ago that takes place in this area; once I heard that there was a tornado, I checked back to see if the event had been cancelled. It didn’t seem to be, so we drove up to the area and just happened to end up on the street here that this man is driving on in the first 3 minutes of the video here.
How did I end up in Menasha? Well, our first destination was in a small town called Combined Locks. The driving on the interstate had been miserable due to rain, and at a certain point, I couldn’t take it any more, and looked for the first exit off, knowing I could come up the western side of Lake Winnebago to get to where I wanted to go. It just happens that Menasha is pretty much on the western side of the tip of Lake Winnebago, so by getting off the interstate, it pretty much meant going through Menasha. It was weird, too, because at first, I just noticed that there were a lot of tree branches and stuff on the sides of the road, and it kind of dawned on me that that must have been a result of the storm. I did not know that within about 15 minutes, we’d be driving through a disaster zone like this. The crazy thing is, though, that once I got through Menasha, my destination was about six miles down the road, and over there, things looked completely normal. For as bad as the tornado was though, it’s amazing that not a single person was killed – certainly something to be grateful for.
The event that the little kids and I went to was a bike ride/music festival called “Bike to the Beat“. The event took place on Saturday, but the four of us made a little mini-vacation out of it, and it was an awful lot of fun. The drive up was absolutely horrendous, lasting 4 hours when 2.5 is more normal. It rained the whole time and there were accidents and road construction in the Milwaukee area. I was so incredibly grateful both to get off the interstate and to actually arrive at the hotel.

BIke to the Beat was amazing, even apart from a couple of wrinkles in the day, and I am grateful that there were no mechanical issues with the bikes, we had all the tools, I didn’t forget any pedals or anything, etc. More than that though, the kids enjoyed the hotel a lot and we took a little detour through Manitowoc on the way back, and it was really a good trip. I’m the type of person who is always trying to anticipate what might go wrong in order to avoid any pitfalls, and when things go off with no major issues, I am grateful.
I’m grateful, too, that after far too long, I got to video chat with a dear friend. I’m grateful, too that through everything, the friendship holds.
Wow, it’s been a full couple of weeks! Thank you all for your patience with me! I am certainly grateful for all of you!

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Another quick update post

My finger is doing a lot better; the swelling is down and it almost feels normal, though I have to take antibiotics for the next few days yet. I’m catching up with stuff with the blog and with things at home. I should have a “real” post up by this evening – I’m kind of excited, because my work on it now has stretched out more than a week (far, far to long, but such is life sometimes!).
I’m also planning to back-fill Wordle solutions, if anyone is interested in that.
Hopefully, things are well with all of you!
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Those times real life takes over

This week has been really busy. There have been a bunch of things that have needed to be attended to, and ridiculous things like losing my laptop for a day haven’t helped. Then there have been issues with the kids, and now my very swollen and sore finger (which I mentioned in the last Wordle post). It’s doing better – with antibiotics, the pain has lessened to a reasonable amount, but still with any bump or jarring harder than my finger pressing the keys, I get a nice shot of pain from the tip of my finger, through my wrist, and beyond.
Your prayers are appreciated, as is your patience. 🙂 Thank you.
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Wordle #411


Wordle explanations are posted a day late to ensure that no one accidentally sees the solution before playing.
Line 1: One of my typical start words. “E” is the only letter I’ve got here, but it is not in the right place.
Line 2: Going for some new letters here. “H” and “E” are correct, but “R” is not.
Line 3: This is tough. With the “H” in the second place, normally there would be an “A”, “T”, “S”, or “C” before it, but those letters are used. I can’t think of any “WH” or “GH” that would have a “U”, so is “RH” possible? At first all I can think of is “rhythm”, but that’s six letters… so… yes, “rhyme”!
P.S. One of my fingers has a bacterial infection and is in severe pain, so longer posting is just not possible at the moment.
Did you get this Wordle? Tell me about it in the comments!
Happy Gaming!
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Wordle #410


Wordle explanations are posted a day late to ensure that no one accidentally sees the solution before playing.
Line 1: One of my typical start words. “T” is in the word, but that letter is in a lot of words.No help here.
Line 2: I probably should have chosen a word with a “T” in it, but “churn” served me well with a “U” in the correct place and an “H” in the incorrect place.
Line 3: Being as there are “T” and “H” in the word, I decide to put them together. I also decide to see if this is an “OU” word, and I’m lucky on this. However, “mouth” is not the answer.
Line 4: If it’s not “mouth” and it can’t be “couth”, it’s got to be “youth”, right?
Did you get this Wordle? Tell me about it in the comments!
Happy Gaming!
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Lilla Rose update – August 2022

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Just a quick update as far as Lilla Rose stuff this August.
The DIY (design it yourself) Flexis are dangle clips this month, so you get to choose clip style, center style, dangle style, size, and whether you want left-handed or right-handed clips.
There is some new stuff and some stuff that has returned. I *believe* one of the returning items is the “Roman Cross” flexi – I gifted someone hairpins this past month, and even though it’s a design that isn’t officially a cross, it definitely has that vibe. I appreciate that Lilla Rose offers some items that are beautiful for those who want to show some symbol of Christian faith in what they wear.
The promo this month is a free hair stick with a purchase of $40 or more. I’d never used hair sticks before this year, and I am amazed at how easy they are to use, and how well they work. I don’t think I’m ever going to go back to buns that are held up by elastics – for me, they don’t work nearly as well. I usually pair my hair sticks up, but it’s not even necessary.

Posting this photo again because the pictures I just took really aren’t any better. Have I mentioned how difficult it is to get backwards selfies to look halfway decent? 
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Wordle #409


Wordle explanations are posted a day late to ensure that no one accidentally sees the solution before playing.
Line 1: One of my typical start words. No help here.
Line 2: “Chump” is one of the alternative “base words”; even with the “C”, there’s not a lot to go on.
Line 3: The alternative to “fling” – one of my “base words” here is “cling”. One more letter, the “L”, but in the wrong place. This is getting to be quite perplexing.
Line 4: Obviously “crowd” can’t be the word because there’s no “L”, but I’m desperate to get some more letters in.
Line 5: The writers of this game generally do not use simple plurals or adjective forms for Wordle. However, the only thing that I can think at this point is “coyly”. Would they do that? With few other options available, I try it and… it works!
Did you get this Wordle? Tell me about it in the comments!
Happy Gaming!
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Music Memory – The Freshman – Verve Pipe

Life with five kids is always somewhat crazy; yesterday I did a post about Wordle and then actually forgot to do the puzzle. I once had a streak of 104, then I forgot a day, which set me back down to zero. I had gotten the streak back up to 37 or so, and now… I’m back at one. Oh well. So is life sometimes.
I’m also working on a longer post and have been for the last 3 days or so. It didn’t help that I misplaced my laptop for a day or so. I can do gaming posts on my phone, but longer things just do not work well with that format. (And… this post itself has gotten much longer than first envisioned!)
This morning, I heard the song “The Freshman” by the band the Verve Pipe on the radio. I was in college when it originally came out, and back then, I found it annoying to the point where I wanted to claw my ears out (or at least chuck the radio out the window) every. time. it. played. The even more maddening part is, it’s got a decent tune and some catchy lyrics, and so as much as I really disliked the song, I’d often find myself singing along.
In short, the story of the song is as follows: A friend of the narrator of the song breaks up with his girlfriend, and she’s so broken up about it that she commits suicide. The narrator and his friend are so traumatized about what happened that, even years later, they’re finding it hard to come to terms with what happened.
If this were all that was to the story, that would be fine. However, there are a couple of other points of the song that really make it terrible. First off, I always got the impression that there were a lot of drugs involved in the relationship with these three. Secondly, it seems like even though time has passed, the narrator refuses to put any decent perspective on the situation; there are plenty of times after someone commits suicide where the people who are left behind are left feeling terribly guilty, whether justified or not. In this song, though, it sounds like he’s blaming her – “she fell in love in the first place” – as though these relationships are completely one-way.
Not only is the line “She was touching her face” completely stupid, but I think what bothered me the most about this song was still attitude, even years later, that “this wasn’t supposed to happen to us because we were young”. Apparently there are a lot of people who have or had this attitude, but it was the complete opposite of my experience, and adding the line “For the life of me/I could not believe we’d ever die for these sins/We were merely freshmen”. I understand that death often makes us think more about the “deeper issues”, but the line drips of pseudo-religion and complete ignorance of Christianity. It’s not so much that the line is a cheap shot, it’s more like the songwriter used the line as a way to hook the listener’s ear. It works in the context of ignorance (the narrator’s) but from a Christian context, “the wages of sin is death” – we all know we die because of sin, most definitely our own, but also because we live in a fallen world. Again, in the context of the song, it may be like a blind squirrel finding a nut; the reality is that none of us can help but perish because of the effects of sin, but it’s quite annoying to hear.
The great irony of this song in my life was that not only was it popular during my freshman year of college, my freshman year was dominated by a very serious situation concerning one of my best friends. His family life was terrible, and he saw college as a new start, where he could put that all behind him. The reality was that he couldn’t, and he sunk into deep depression. Eventually, he told me he had reached the end, which was indescribably scary, especially for a 17-year-old who was also dealing with a ton of family issues. I had a lot of advice from well-meaning people who told me not to get too involved, trying to protect me from getting pulled along with him deeper into his emotional darkness.

Even then, I appreciated their concern for me, but in my heart, I knew I couldn’t pull away from such a dear friend in such a dire hour of need. This was one of the first times I remember feeling as though I had specific directions from God; that my duty was to do the things I needed to do for my friend (calls, daily emails) to hold on to him and God, in turn, would be holding on to me. That is the faith that I tried to walk with during those terrible days. I understood keenly that my friend was going to make his own decisions, however, I didn’t feel like running away when he needed a friend the most was the right thing to do. Come what may, I wanted to be able to live with and have peace with my own decisions.
Considering all this, hearing this song play constantly during this time drove me a little insane. It made me actively mad. It reminded me of the situation with my friend and it reminded me that I never thought of myself as invincible (quite the opposite, actually) and that I was aware that my decisions would have long-lasting repercussions.
Life has been far from easy for me or my friend, but we’re both still here, and that certainly counts for something. I take kids in the car to their day camp and the song comes on the radio. I sing along a little; the abject hatred of this song has faded, but it still doesn’t fail to annoy me a bit. However, I can’t listen to this song without thinking of my friend, of remembering being so young and living constantly on that edge of such intense emotion. It is nostalgia twinged with melancholy. To think, we were merely freshmen.
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Wordle #407


Wordle explanations are posted a day late to ensure that no one accidentally sees the solution before playing.
Line 1: One of my typical start words. “A” is the only letter I’ve got here, but it is also in the right place.
Line 2: “Champ” is one of my “base words”; imagine my shock seeing 4 of the 5 letters in the correct place!
Line 3: Here’s the quandary, though – do I keep playing words to get that one slot (clamp, cramp, etc.) or do I play something that might give me that letter faster (large, perhaps). As it seems that there are only two more words that would fit here, I opt for the former. Alas, it’s not “clamp”.
Line 4: It is “cramp”!
Did you get this Wordle? Tell me about it in the comments!
Happy Gaming!
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Wordle #406


Wordle explanations are posted a day late to ensure that no one accidentally sees the solution before playing.
Line 1: One of my typical start words. Not a whole lot to go on, but the “F” is still appreciated.
Line 2: Normally, I don’t like to use words that don’t give me a maximum of new letters, but for the life of me, I couldn’t think of anything with a single “F” – where the “F” doesn’t start the word – that doesn’t have any “A”, “E”, or “T”. Therefore, I guessed a double “F” and thankfully, it worked out.
Line 3: Just changed out the first two letters
Did you get this Wordle? Tell me about it in the comments!
Happy Gaming!
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Wordle #405


Wordle explanations are posted a day late to ensure that no one accidentally sees the solution before playing.
Line 1: One of my typical start words. Good start; 3 letters, & the “T” is in the right place.
Line 2: Moved the “S” to the first spot, but it’s still not in the right place. “P” is a nice addition.
Line 3: With 4/5 letters, this is mostly an unscrambling exercise. The number of possibilities is greatly limited being as “S” is neither in position 1 or 4. “Upset” is my guess (was there anything else?) and it worked.
Did you get this Wordle? Tell me about it in the comments!
Happy Gaming!